5.23.2008

Oblivious

It's pretty frequently now that I wish we could be more open with each other.

Not that everyone wants to complain to others all day about themselves. That's actually the opposite of what I think it could accomplish. When it isn't complaining, it's a way to be honest and unburdened; self-aware and helpful to others; overall, so much insight could be brought about by general honesty.
But it would take understanding and an open mind. And a lot of the time in our lives, there are so many other things going on that we aren't exactly concerned with much else then whats going on along the surface.

It would definitely help-and I'm not specifically speaking about me, or anyone else in particular.
If everyone could simply feel comfortable enough to speak their minds about struggles and real-life obstacles, wouldn't others in turn become become more aware and concerned and focused? And feel encouraged to think about how problems can be overcome, and reach peace; instead of continuing to flit around, oblivious to important things in life?

Do we even create that kind of open, comfortable environment in everyday life? And if not, Why?

I find that I enjoy being carefree; who doesn't? But to really be carefree, there shouldn't be anything weighing down on you. But, alas, we do not live in a wonderful carefree world.
Although a lot of the time we think we do-because our problems are shoved to the side while we trudge on each day, divulging ourselves in matters that could ease any pain, and instill that free feeling.
All that really brings about in my opinion, is a false outlook on how enjoyable life can be, especially when all of those worries you left behind will certainly catch up.

So in the end, it does take something more than ignoring stress. It even takes more than be open about our struggles.

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